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F & F’s Holstein Squares off Against Leading Child Support Officials on NPR (Audio Available)

The call-in lines were jammed as Fathers & Families’ Board Chairman Ned Holstein, M.D., M.S. debated two leading Ohio child support officials on NPR in Cleveland May 14.  To listen to audio of the show, click here. Dr. Holstein is on from 25:30 to 40:30. To comment on the NPR website, click here.      MORE>>>

Worcester Telegram & Gazette, MA’s 3rd Largest Paper, Publishes Strong Editorial in Favor of HB 1400, F & F’s Shared Parenting Bill

The Worcester Telegram and Gazette, Massachusetts 3rd largest newspaper, has published a strong editorial in favor of HB 1400, Fathers & Families’ shared parenting bill. The editorial comes on the heels of the op-ed by Fathers & Families’ Board Chairman Ned Holstein Time for shared parenting (Worcester Telegram & Gazette, 4/29/10)…

In their editorial Fairness for fathers: Bill makes sense for most divorces (Worcester Telegram and Gazette, 5/13/10), the newspaper’s Editorial Board writes: By smoothing the way toward sound custody agreements, House Bill 1400 offers help in the vast majority of cases: those involving two fit parents. 

Read the full editorial here. To post a comment on it on the newspaper’s site, click here.    MORE>>>




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Gender equality: Men in child care, the last frontier?

Anthony D’Tiole, 20, of Moraga, Ca. says when he first started out, he had to work harder to get the jobs that came easily to his female counterparts.  “They might have five interviews and be offered four jobs,” he said, “I’d have 20 interviews; and if I was lucky, I’d be offered one position.”  D’Tiole is a male child care provider, a male nanny, a “manny.”

Some parents admit to having a preference for a female nanny because they fear their children could become victims of sexual abuse, even while acknowedging that it’s wrong to suspect all men.  Women commit 14% to 40% of sexual abuse reported against boys and 6% of offenses reported against girls.

“If we want truly egalitarian parenting and society as a whole — shouldn’t that include men in nurturing roles?,” asks Elisa on the blog Mother Talkers.   more…


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2010 Parental Alienation Awareness Day around the world

Sunday was Parental Alienation Day, the holiday of heartbreak.

Parental Alienation Awareness Organization (PAAO) organized a Bubbles of Love campaign so that alienated parents around the world could unite in spirit, support and public awareness.  Adults, children, and even dogs got involved in the public bubble-blowing events. Reports and photos have come in from Toronto and Barrie in Ontario, Canada, Kristianstad, Sweden and Frankfurt, Germany.

Parents, grandparents and other concerned citizens held a candlelight vigil in Denver, Colorado.  Members of Three Sides to Every Story, Equal Justice Foundation, Equal Parenting Party,  Coalition for Equal Parenting, Abuse Freedom United, CoFathers and National Forum On Judicial Accountability (NFOJA) united to bring awareness of the unnecessary suffering of Colorado families.   more…. (SLIDE SHOW)


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Parental Alienation Day, the holiday of heartbreak

Parental Alienation Day is one holiday that no one wants to celebrate.  For many the name stirs a mild curiosity.  For others, a searing pain that cuts through their very soul.

Mike Jeffries said it best on Basil & Spice when he wrote, “You won’t find an e-card that says, ‘Happy Parental Alienation Day.’ However if more people know why parents alienate a child from the child’s other parent, and how damaging these behaviors are to the child, then more people can help address the problem. Awareness and education are the first steps towards change.”  See Parental alienation information and support.

How common is parental alienation?  Four out of every 10 children whose parents don’t live together haven’t seen their fathers in over a year.  See Why is there a fathers rights movement?.

Mothers are victims of parental alienation too.  Which is why some are left scratching their heads when radical feminist domestic violence advocates and so-called “protective mother” groups film fake documentaries to convince legislators that parental alienation isn’t real.  more…


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Father tortured to near-death over child support

David A. Bardes was mistakenly (or purposely) jailed for child support arrears he did not owe, then frozen into a coma. The jailers put him into a hypothermic cell used to subdue rioting inmates.

Bush’s torture memo says hypothermia can’t be used longer than one hour, then the prisoner must be warmed.  Bardes was left for 2 days.  He almost died.  When he was found he was dumped into a suicide watch room for two more days when he should have been in a hospital.

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Tortured for child support arrears


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MA getting closer to equal parenting via HB 1400

Massachusetts is on the verge of becoming a shared parenting state.� Or it seems, after Governor Deval Patrick and today’s committee members expressed unprecedented interest.

HB 1400 would establish a presumption of shared legal and shared physical custody following divorce, where a family court determines that both parents are fit to care for their children.� Ned Holstein M.D., M.S., Founder and Chair of the Board of Fathers & Families testified today along with Harris Allen, PhD, Cheryl Quiambao, Annie McQuilken, Norma Millett, Shawn Gliklich, MD, Attorney Deborah Sirotkin Butler and other shared parenting supporters.

Glenn Sacks, F& F’s Executive Director reports:

Through Fathers & Families� efforts, over one-quarter of the Massachusetts Legislature has expressed clear, public support for our Shared Parenting Bill, many of them signing on as co-sponsors. We gathered thousands of signatures to place shared parenting on the 2004 Massachusetts ballot and led a successful campaign for its passage, winning 86% of the vote. Massachusetts Governor Deval Patrick told the Legislature that if they pass Fathers & Families� Shared Parenting bill, he will sign it, and F & F recently met with Massachusetts Governor Patrick.

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Tortured for child support – part four

Torture in jail is not as rare as one might suspect.� David A. Bardes is just one of tens of thousands who responded when True Equality Network asked the question, “Were you tortured while incarcerated?”

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Part four

As he lay in the jail’s suicide watch room Bardes took an inventory of his body parts.

My right leg was charlie-horsed in pain and not working that well, my right forearm was the same way, my left index finger was not responding, and I could not keep my left eyelid open. I also had little feeling from the waist downward. My body�s nervous system was out of whack and kept sending signals to my nerve nodes causing involuntary muscle spasms. My brain was coming back on line and was re-programming itself to see if it had command of all of the body�s various functions.

The medical staff knew they had a problem.� A ‘Refusal Form’ was filled out, and every single worker signed it as witnesses. One nurse even signed it twice, Bardes says, because she was so “freaked out.”� He adds, “They went to great lengths to cover their liability should I have died while in their care.”

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Tortured for child support – part three

David A. Bardes recalls April 2006 when he almost died in a Charleston County jail.� Put there for child support, he was left in a hypothermic chamber for over 30 hours.

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I began to lose parts of my memory. I was trying to �think� of things and events to keep my brain alive, but each time I thought of something it would disappear with a snap. I was losing memories at an increasing pace. I knew the end was near and I thought of my two children.

Then the memory of my son disappeared and my last thought of my life was of my daughter. I held onto my daughter until the end. My respirations were shallow and my heartbeats had slowed. I slipped into hypothermic coma, a death-like condition that occurs before bodily death.

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Tortured for child support – part two

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David A. Bardes left his job on the 101st. floor of the World Trade center and moved to Charleston, South Carolina so his children would have their father in their lives.� Once there he was falsely accused of being in “gross” child support arrears.

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Northern California charter schools

Charter schools are an effective, positive, parent-empowering alternative education choice.  They’re tuition-free public schools that are regulated but self-governing.  California has nearly 700 of them.  They offer a comprehensive… Read more


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